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    3/7/2009

    [转] 女人应该裱起来天天读一遍的话

    1.喜欢的东西自己努力买,不要指望别人送。
    2.寂寞的时候,不要听慢歌,怀旧或者腻死在网上,站起来做运动或者去找朋友八卦。

    3.认真游戏,但牢记只是游戏。
    4.收到甜言蜜语的短信,记得微笑,然后删除。
    5.想吃饼干前,把手放在自己的肚子上感受脂肪的存在。
    6.少喝果汁多吃水果,少吃零食多喝水,少坐多站,少想多看,少说多做,少怀旧多憧憬。

    7.永远不会再有第二个男人像爸爸这样爱你,所以最爱的男人当然是爸爸
    8.在QQ,手机里删除前男友的号码,避免神经脆弱的时候主动找他。
    9.减肥是为了更美好的人生。要是因为减肥而失去了生活的乐趣,不如放弃。
    10.每天树立小目标然后努力实现。
    11.坚决不买大一号的衣服,不给自己肥胖的空间。
    12.吃下去的就坚决不再吐出来,所以吃之前要想清楚。恋爱也是。

    13.生日、圣诞节、情人节,记得买礼物送给自己。
    14.想办法努力赚钱,而不是如何省钱。
    15.相信爱情和mr.right的存在,在此之前也不拒绝和mr.wrong们分享人生。
    16.看透的时候,假装没看透。
    17.内衣一旦出现破损,决不再穿,立即扔掉。
    18.每天和爸爸联系,经常跟死党交流,偶尔给不常联系的朋友发短信问候,绝不回头找以前的恋人

    19.记得自己的错误并想办法弥补,但永远不要责怪自己。
    20.愤怒的时候数到30再说话。
    21.做好防晒,但记得适当地晒晒太阳。心情也会进行光合作用。真的。
    22.为BF付出之前,想想有没有这样对待过自己。
    23.状态低靡的中午不如睡觉,遇到低谷就放自己大假。

    24.真正看中的东西就买,不要借钱。真正喜欢的男人就追,量力而行。
    25.节假日上街疯狂雪拼之前,从钱包里扣下一百块。
    26.银行卡的密码不要用男友的生日。
    27.永远不向从前的恋人诉苦。
    28.出门之前,根据步行的时间和强度考虑要穿的鞋子。
    29.即便只是下楼买水果,也记得别穿的太邋遢。你永远不知道会在什么时候遇上什么人。

    30.挤公车的时候不要和别人挤的太紧,给自己预留几公分空间。工作也是,学习也是。
    31.随身携带:面纸,镜子,护垫,钱包(里面有钱),钥匙。不随身携带:旧情人送的戒指,照片,回忆。
    32.选一项喜欢的运动并且坚持下去。
    33.可以淘便宜的衣服,但记得自己的品位比这个价位高。
    34.桌上的护肤品永远比化妆品多,贵,好,对于女人来说外养不如内调。
    35.洗衣服之前戴手套,保护自己总没错。

    36.养成写日记的习惯,哪怕只言片语。
    37.可以不认同,但学会尊重。
    38.打电话的时候记得微笑,对方听的见。
    39.注重内心,但不忽略外表。
    40.每月记帐,每月储蓄。
    41.了解潮流,但不必跟风。

    42.看起来多大年龄,就有多大年龄。
    43.做不了决定的时候,让时间帮你决定。如果还是无法决定,做了再说。宁愿犯错,不留遗憾。
     
    8/18/2007

    On the road to love...

                                                                                      

                                            Auto what your car says about you?Red heart

    The car: A fully loaded SUV


    about you: More often than not, an SUV driver is an organized person who might even be a bit of a paranoid pack-rat. 
    The 4-wheel-drive tells you that this person wants to be prepared for both emergencies and for spontaneous adventures—a bit of a paradox, isnt it? this person enjoys control and likes to be at the top of his or her game, whether it be sports, work, family, or trivia and ultimately is a motivated, energetic, and passionate person. 

    about your love style:  An SUV driver likely prefers his or her partners to also be organized, although its doubtful you can meet their standards in that department.
    This person is looking for someone with a sense of adventure and even a bit of unpredictability—but chances are, he or she will have an extra toothbrush for you in case you forget yours!”

    The car: A red convertible  

    about you: Someone who drives this kind of car has two sides, each of which is revealed depending on the setting.  its driver can have a shy streak (a sexy car is akin to a conversation-starter), but in general (and especially in relationships) this person is an alpha-type.

    about you love style: The convertible's driver likes to lead a stylish life—so his or her mate had better appreciate that flair, too. someone who is social, outgoing and extremely comfortable with others is a good fit. If you're the driver, you will have no problem if your mate is magnetically charismatic, just as long as he or she can loop arms and feel safe while you do the shining.

    The car: A station wagon 

    about U: As the SUV has become the most popular “car that hauls” choice in the vehicular marketplace, the driver who remains committed to rolling in a station wagon is clearly a traditionalist. “A station-wagon driver doesn't like change and can't seem to figure out what all the fuss is about new technology and such,”  “He or she is highly practical, but may have a secret penchant for high-priced comfort items like his and hers sheepskin seat covers,”

    your love style: This driver is looking for a partner who is honest and sincere, just like he or she is—someone who isn’t afraid to trust and commit to a good relationship,“If the driver doesn't have or want kids, it's likely that he or she wants to get involved with a date's extended family big-time—like for cookouts with the folks, family reunions, and so on,” “His or her perfect partner is someone who will be a formidable badminton teammate at the next family gathering.” Nothing wrong with good, clean, wholesome fun, now is there?

    The car: A Honda Accord or other sensible sedan 

    about you: Someone who drives this practical vehicle is most likely educated and intelligent
    . This driver probably likes discussing politics and is very well-read and mature. People who drive these kinds of cars don't take big risks in life, but hey, that mentality has served them well up to now! What you may find pleasantly surprising is that the driver probably has a lot of savings socked away. This kind of person has invested his or her money well and may very well be enjoying a cushy lifestyle, but is just smart enough to know that a car is a horrible investment. Ultimately, he or she cares about value, not flash.

    you love style: Its owner will most enjoy someone who likes to converse about life. He or she thinks that support, friendship, and honesty are essential to a good healthy relationship. Additionally, he or she probably doesn't mind spending a lot of money on a mate—especially when it comes to travel, fabulous hotels, and great restaurants. The thinking is: “I save when I can to splurge when I want.”

    The car: A Jeep Wrangler or FJ Cruiser ( I like Jeep very much, i want a Hammer!)❤希希所屬❤

    about you: Believe it or not, this person is not a risk-taker, but would very much like to be. More often than not, this kind of person's life is pretty routine; he or she is super responsible. However, this person has a slightly immature streak (so this means I'm childish...o man...>.< I don't like Jeep anymore!) — that's OK, by the way — that wants to step out and go wild. This car helps the owner express that part of his or her
    character; this individual wants to be perceived as young, carefree and spontaneous.

    your love style: Because this driver is most likely not much of a risk-taker, when looking for a partner, he or she will be seeking someone who is. He or she is up for something exciting and unpredictable and is probably looking for someone who is adventurous Hot. While the owner of this car is probably very tolerant of high-maintenance people and drama queens or kings, ultimately, his or her main criteria in a mate is someone who knows how to have fun. ---> Wink


    The car: A Toyota Prius or any other hybrid

    What the car says about its owner: You guessed it: The person behind the wheel of a Prius chose an environmentally-friendly car because that cause is meaningful to him or her. “This driver is an energetic volunteer or cause-supporter who is often earnest and serious,” “This person is wearing his or her priorities on a sleeve (well, on the car…) and is interested in making a statement.” Just know that he or she “probably doesn' t have a sense of humor when it comes to rainforest preservation, veganism, or Dennis Kucinich,”Ultimately, these drivers have good souls, she says: “People appreciate their commitment to their beliefs, even if they may be prone to preaching.”

    your love style: The hybrid driver is likely searching for someone who shares his or her politics and passions. “This driver is probably most apt to meet his or her perfect mate at a political march or a benefit,”  She also suggests that because this person may be a bit uptight in the love department; finding a mate who can loosen him or her up is essential.

    The car: A BMW or other luxury sedan 

    about U: Owners of these types of cars — think the BMW 7 Series — believe that they'
    ve made their money, darn it, and they've got the right to spend, flaunt it and enjoy it. “They might be a bit annoying in the boasting department, but they are successful people who have earned some bragging rights,”


    your love style: these people tend to be slightly insecure when it comes to relationships. “They are usually nervous about making big mistakes in the love department,” It's important for them to feel successful in all aspects of their lives. While these drivers don't mind someone who is impressed by their money,  they really do hope to meet someone who will like them for who they are. “The perfect mate for this kind of person is someone who is self-sufficient but genuinely happy to dote on a partner,”

     

    ***blogged from msn.com article by Chelsea Kaplan ❤希希所屬❤

     
    5/13/2007

    MY TIME HAS COME!

     
     
    May 12, 2007
    1. TRENT
      UH-HUH~! O YEAH O YEAH~!
     
                         me happy =]
    4/10/2007

    一切都是新的

     
     
    新的起点
     
    新的开始
     
    新的自我
     
    新的人生
     
    我又回来咯~
    3/2/2007

    Just want to be with you...

     

     

     
     
    You set my soul at ease
    Chased darkness out of view
    Left your desperate spell on me
    Say you feel it too
    I know you do...

    I've got so much more to give
    This cant die, I yearn to live
     ...
     
    From the moment that I saw your face
    And felt the fire in your sweet embrace
    ...
     
    My mind fails to understand
    What my heart tells me to do
    And I'd give up all I have just to be with you
     Cuz when Im with you theres nowhere else
    That I would ever wanna be
    I'm breathing for the next second I can feel you
        
     
     
     
     
    2/22/2007

    Happy 4th '22'

     

                                                             

    If
    I could save time in a bottle
          the first thing that i 'd like to do
          is to save every day until eternity passes away
          just to spend them with you

         If
    I could make days last forever
          if words could make wishes come true
          I'd save every day like a treasure and then
          again I would spend them with you
     
    2/17/2007

    HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR!

     

     

          猪年快乐 

     

    BE HAPPY  =]

     

    1/26/2007

    have you ever thought about it?!

     
    Why the sun lightens our hair, but darkens our skin?

      为什么太阳能把头发晒浅,却能把皮肤晒黑?

    Why women can't put on mascara with their mouth closed?

         为什么女人涂抹睫毛膏的时候不把嘴合上?
    Why is "abbreviation" such a long word?

      为什么"缩写"是这么长的一个单词?

    Why is it that to close Windows XP, you have to click on "Start"?

      为什么在要关掉视窗时,你必须先点击"开始"键?

    Why is lemon juice made with artificial flavor, and dishwashing liquid made with real lemons?

      为什么柠檬汁是用人造香味调料做的,而洗碗液是用真正的柠檬做的?

    Why is the man who invests all your money called a broker?

      为什么帮你管理你的所有投资的人叫做"不名一文的人"?("broke"在英文中有"不名一文","穷到家了"的意思)

    Why is the time of day with the slowest traffic called ''rush hour''?

      为什么一天中交通最慢的时刻叫"速行"时刻?


    When dog food is new and improved tasting, who tests it?

      当狗食被宣扬是新的和改进了的口味的时候,是谁作的口味鉴定?

    Why do they sterilize the needle for lethal injections?

      在用注射毒剂的方式执行死刑时,为什么还要消毒针头?

    You know that indestructible 'black box' that is used on airplanes? Why don't they make the whole plane out of that stuff?

      你知道那个用在飞机上的"不会被摧毁"的黑匣子吧?为什么他们不把整架飞机都造成那种材料的?

    Why don't sheep shrink when it rains?

      为什么下雨时绵羊不缩水?

    Why are they called ''apartments'' when they are all stuck together?

      为什么公寓都紧紧靠在一起?(apart means seperated 是分开的意思)
     
    1/8/2007

    to PRINCE

     
    I lie awake at night
    See things in black and white
    I've only got you inside my mind
    You know you have made me blind

    I lie awake and pray
    That you will look my way
    I have all this longing in my heart
    I knew it right from the start


    I used to write your name
    And put it in a frame
    And sometime I think I hear you call
    Right from my bedroom wall

    You stay a little while
    And touch me with your smile
    And what can I say to make you mine
    To reach out for you in time

    my pretty pretty boy
    I love you
    Like I never ever loved no one before you
    Pretty pretty boy of mine
    Just tell me you love me too
    my pretty pretty boy
    I need you
    my pretty pretty boy I do
    Let me inside
    Make me stay right beside you
     
     
    12/23/2006

    Looking For Love

        
    A Song From You
     
     
    Out of all the girls I've loved before
              Out of all the stages I've performed on
              Out of all of the cities I've been to
              I bless the day that I found you 


                 I bless the day I found you and that's my word
                          It's nothing for me out there in those streets
                          You took my heart and you set it on fire
                          And now my love forever burns
                          You keep taking me higher

     
                                I been looking for love
                                          In all the wrong places
                                         And now I finally found
                                         Someone who cares for me
                                         No matter the storm
                                         It was you who helped me face it
                                         And now it's safe to say
                                         That you really care for me


                                            Just like the wings
                                                      You took me, flew me away, yeah
                                                      And now my ground is underneath my feet
                                                      This man had nowhere to go
                                                      Then you gave me direction
                                                      And now the rest of my days
                                                      I can't help but give you the praise


                                                             You saw my needs, forgave my faults
                                                                       You cleansed my heart, you changed my thoughts
                                                                       You brought the sun into my life
                                                                       When my world had seemed dark, yes you did
                                                                       And you're the only one 
                                                                       Who was there when I needed a friend
                                                                       You're the only one who can place joy
                                                                       When there's pain in my heart
     
     
                                                                                                                         so happy to have you in my life
                                                                                                                           te amo..
                                                                                                                         we've been through a lot of things
                                                                                                                        but that never keep me away from you
                                                                                                                        instead i'm getting even more closer to you
                                                                                                                       ...
                                                                                                                            more than words can say
                                                                                                                           you are one in a million
                                                                                                                            i'm glad i found you too..
                                                                                                                     and
                                                                                                                          MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU!
                                                                                                                     =)
     
     
    12/9/2006

    i will never let it go...

     
     

    Always said I would know where to find love,
    Always thought I'd be ready and strong enough,
    But some times I just felt I could give up.
    But you came and changed my whole world now,
    I'm somewhere I've never been before.
    Now I see, what love means.

    It's so unbelievable,
    And I don't want to let it go,
    Something so beautiful,
    Flowing down like a waterfall.
    I feeL like you've always been,
    Forever a part Of me.
    And it's so unbelievable to finally be in love,
    Somewhere I'd never thought I'd be.

    In my heart, in my head, it's so clear now,
    Hold my hand you've got nothing to fear now,
    I was lost and you'Ve rescued me some how.
    I'm alive, I'm in love you complete me,
    And I've never been here beforE.

    When I think of what I have, and this chance I nearly lost...I cant help bUt break down, and cry....Oh yeah, break down and cry....

    Now I see, what love means 

     
    10/6/2006

    october 4th, the day i'll remember 4ever

     
     
    from the day we met...
    october 4th...
    i can't get u out of my mind...
     
    u're no longer a stranger...
     
    9/29/2006

    millennium love

     

               
    不淋漓尽致不痛快
    感情多深只有这样
    才足够表白
    死了都要爱
    不哭到微笑不痛快
    宇宙毁灭心还在

    把每天当成是末日来相爱
    一分一秒都美到泪水掉下来
    不理会别人是看好或看坏
    只要你勇敢跟我来

    爱不用刻意安排
    凭感觉去亲吻相拥就会很愉快
    享受现在别一开怀就怕受伤害
    许多奇迹我们相信才会存在

    死了都要爱
    不淋漓尽致不痛快
    感情多深只有这样才足够表白
    死了都要爱
    不哭到微笑不痛快
    宇宙毁灭心还在

    穷途末路都要爱
    不极度浪漫不痛快
    发会雪白土会掩埋
    思念不腐坏
    到绝路都要爱
    不天荒地老不痛快
    不怕热爱变火海
    爱到沸腾才精彩
     
     
    9/23/2006

    who needs Harvard or Yale?

    news reporter Mark Scott demonstrates that U.S students are discovering the advantages of elite British universities. and they are saving a bundle.
     

    If you're into prestige as well as a top-notch education, Oxford is right up there with Harvard. Yet consider this: An incoming freshman at Harvard College is looking at an estimated $185,800 for tuition and room and board over the next four years.

    The same student can earn a degree at Oxford in just three years for about $112,000 -- and that includes all school expenses, plus travel to and from the States.

    The Oxford deal was too good to pass up for Christopher Schuller, a 20-year-old Nashville native who is starting his third year there with a double major in law and German law. "Even with overseas fees and the high exchange rate, Oxford is still cheaper," says Schuller, who found a similar cost advantage in the British school over his top stateside pick, the University of Chicago.

    Who needs the Ivies (famous universities), or any other elite U.S. college, when your kid can hop across the Atlantic for an excellent educational adventure? Besides lower costs, prestigious British universities offer the excitement of living abroad. Plus, they have less stringent entry requirements than Ivy League schools. For example, the University of St. Andrews, Scotland's top-ranked university, expects applicants to have SAT scores of around 1,300, compared with 1,500 for most Ivies. The London School of Economics and Political Science (LSE) doesn't even use the SAT, instead requiring four advanced placement (AP) tests with scores of 4 or 5.

    More U.S. students are noticing such advantages. According to Britain's Universities & Colleges Admissions Service (UCAS), 2,201 U.S. high school students applied to full-time undergrad programs at British universities last year, a fourfold increase since 1996. Some 948 were accepted. "Students get the chance to engage with a different culture while getting a top-of-the-line academic experience," says Marsha Little, director of college counseling at the Lovett School, a prep school in Atlanta.

    Competitive edge

    A degree from a top British university can also offer that extra edge in an increasingly competitive and global job market. Alex Dresner, a 20-year-old sophomore at the LSE from Washington, D.C., believes the experience he's gained while studying overseas helped him land an internship at a communications consulting firm this summer. Shaun Harris, adviser at the LSE career service, thinks the school's pedigree plays well with employers. "We have a pretty good reputation with Goldman Sachs and Morgan Stanley, as well as the White House and the Pentagon," he says.

    The British approach to higher education may not appeal to everyone. Unlike the broad liberal arts curriculum offered by U.S. schools, British universities require students to specialize from their freshman year. For example, a biology major would take only classes related to the degree, and it would be difficult to branch out. Switching majors, in effect, is starting over.

    A different world

    The chance to specialize at such an early stage can be a bonus in many professions. When Schuller finishes his degree at Oxford, he will be able to qualify to take the New York State Bar exam upon completing a U.S. law refresher course. That will save him tens of thousands of dollars on the cost of law school, plus he'll have the opportunity to earn money during the three years he would have been in school.

    Even though Britain and the U.S. share a language, Americans studying in Britain have to adjust to a different culture, a task harder than it might seem. Class hours, for example, are kept to a minimum, typically less than 10 per week, with students splitting their time between small seminars and larger lectures. Independent study is the name of the game; there is typically no set homework, and students must motivate themselves rather than rely on professors.

    just a fact, many Canadian students go to U.S universities for studying advancement, but they do not have chances of getting scholarships. however, in contrast, if U.S students come over to Canada, canadian government have education policies that US students could get scholarships.......i mean WTH... that ain't fair...=____________= Let students from all around globe come to Canada or UK or any other universities, just don't even think abt US universities, it could cost u enormously....trust me

     

    9/20/2006

    regret

     
     
    每次想到都會很難過
    知道是不可能的事情
    一次一次地説服自己
    "你又在做夢了吧..."
     
     
    看到你跟的照片
    心裏總是一陣陣莫名的心酸
    這到底是爲什麽
     
     
    回想到我們在一起出去玩的時候
    你說,我是第一次去你傢的人
    雖然我只是說了," 恩, 是這樣"
    但你可曾知道, 我也是第一次去別人家裏...
    這不是什麽了不起的事情
    可當時真得很開心
    因爲對你的一切都有種好奇感...
     
     
    當初的我, 每天都會想到你
    可是見到了你, 卻總是裝的好無所謂的樣子
    想帶你去你還沒去過的地方 可是總是實現不了
    ...
    很後悔
    我總是這樣 很難說出真正想的
    一直都在迴避著, 迴避著....
    也許我們有緣相識彼此, 卻無緣在一起
    想到種種原因 也不可能跟你在一起
    或許
    因爲
    你的眼裏根本看不到我
    ....
     
     
    9/6/2006

    a reply

     
    in all weathers
    风雨无阻
     
    i will always stay by your side, no matter what
    无论怎样,我一直都会在你身边
    i will always stay by your side, though we are apart
    虽然我们是分开的,但我一直都会在你身边
    even if you are stand infront of me, i still miss you
    即使你站在我的前面,我仍然想念你
    however, we are seperated from each other, i never stop thinking about you
    然而,我们是分开的,但我从未停止对你的思念
    happy together, unhappy together
    开心在一起,伤心在一起
    sick together, sound together
    生病了在一起,健康也要在一起
    poor together, rich together
    贫穷在一起,富有也要在一起
    you never known, days may be sunny or cloudy
    你从未知道, 以后会有阳光,也会有乌云
    hard to find, trying to reach out  for eternity
    想要找到“永恒”是多么的艰难
    i will always stay by your side, in all weathers
    但是我仍然会在你身边,风雨无阻
     
     
     
     
    8/27/2006

    花兒, 不要凋謝....

     
     
     
    飛花落
     
     
                  
                      從前以前 
     
     
     
                                從后以後
     
     
    8/13/2006

    Daisy...

     梦寐以求的爱 
                    原来近在咫尺
    但我惘然不知
                    只是无言看着你
    在这陌生都市里 
                    我日复一日绘画着爱
    期待雏菊的芬芳
                    会跟你骤然而来
    此刻虽然太迟
                    但我终于认得你
    我诚惶诚恐
                    害怕这份爱会骤然消失
    但我会再次相信 
                   你会一直守候我

    8/7/2006

    happy birthday to shuang!

                                                                                                                                                                          

     

                                                    !  

                                                                                          開心每一天!

                                  美麗明天!

     

    7/28/2006

    My Love

     

    的不行吗….在今生的日子里
    非得要等到来生才有可能吗
    要是真的能约定下辈子再聚首
    就算今天要结束也不会害怕  My Love
    渐渐疲惫不堪的我 总是只能躲在你背後
    我呼唤著你的名字 你的眼神却总不在我身上


    没有任何回应
    我知道我该让你自由
    但我心却不听使唤
    你的悲哀越来越像我的无奈
    你那孤寂的心情我都能体会
    不会让你再次哭泣 只想紧紧的抱住你


    为何你知道我对你的一片痴心
    真的不想再尝试让你了解
    没有任何人像我一样如此想拥有你


    真的不行吗….在今生的日子里
    非得要等到来生才有可
    要是真的能约定下辈子再聚首
    就算今天要结束也不会害怕 My Love
    你了解我的心吗 我真的累了
    为了想让你自由 为了你
    你虽然将一切全部遗忘
    但我依然会守在你身旁
    没有任何理由 说服我让别人取代你
    你的悲哀越来越像我的无奈
    你那孤寂的心情我都能体会
    不会让你再次哭泣 只想紧紧的抱住

     

    终于明白了这首歌的意思。。。送给远在彼岸的你